sheff's corner

去０左個關於youth grief and healing arts conference....really like the speaker who presented about the bereavement programs at Canuck Place Children's Hospice and also how expressive arts can be used for the grieving process. one of the things that she said about how to support someone in grief is to be present with that person. sometimes we don't know what we should say when we saw someone mourning, then it makes us feel uncomfortable and the next thing we do is to pull away. we forgot that it's really not about what we said that can make someone feel better about the situation, i mean who do we think we are that we can find something wise to say to that person who suffer a loss of a loved one. we cannot even say that we understand how they feel as everyone's griefing process is so different. support might be easier than we thought we can offer, just simply being there and sticking by them, so that they know it's okay to feel whatever they felt about the loss. i really like the way they provide support services at Canuck Place. I hope some day, i get to work there.........

Speaking of support, 多謝０西我０的可愛朋友們的支持和關心，有時候連我自己都覺得自己好煩，但難得你地still listen to me whine. i am feeling better now and i know i owe it to you guys ^0^ thanks god for blessing me with such a wonderful group of friends.

Song of the day:
"Fix you" -----coldplay

posted by sheffield @ 11:39 PM